41 Kansas City, United States
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My self-summary
I'm 5'5", have blue eyes, brown hair and I'm built like a bear cub. Everything is thickly muscled but I'm still warm, fuzzy and cuddly. While I love to cuddle, I have no problem cutting loose and having an actively good time. I have various interests that range from photography to film. I'm relatively well rounded but I'm always open to interesting new things. To quote a favorite movie of mine: “What you need to ask yourself is what do you really want?" I am what you see: A truly nice guy that is fed up with playing other people's games. Game playing should be mutual and all players should know the rules from the start. I believe in being polite and courteous. all that annoying chivalry bullshit that seems to be considered old fashioned today). I've have been a practicing pagan for 18 years in a family of RLDS ministers. (Yeah..., I got issues) I'm good with words, have all kinds of skills, Like people, and I'm that square peg that everyone is always trying to pound into a round or octagonal hole. I try to make sure that all complements that I pay are sincere. I would like to find someone on my wavelength who is interested in hanging out, talking or spending some time doing whatever. I try to see the beauty in life and live it to its fullest. I try to make every day and adventure, and live with as few regrets as possible. I like to engage my full attention in everything I do. I haven't given up hope of falling in love, but I'll be damned if I just sit around and collect dust because I haven't found it yet. If the Mayans were right and the world is going to end in another 3 years, I want to go out having had as active a sex life as I can handle. I've got my share of experience, but a gentleman doesn't kiss and tell. I think that people are into what they are into, and that nothing is shameful if it turns you on!

I am Adventurous, Enthusiastic, and Direct
What I’m doing with my life
I work full-time when I can, go to College at night, and I'm a Father. I am still learning how to balance my life without forgetting who I am. It's real easy to get wrapped up in earning the means to live and forgetting why you were doing it in the first place. My job is a means to an end not the other way around.
I’m really good at
Writing, Listening, Telling Stories. I seem to collect nick-names and stories the way others collect stamps and coins. No matter what I am doing, I can find a way to make things more complicated than necessary.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes are the windows to my soul. Most of the time they sparkle with Life and my enjoyment living it. When I am angry they Glisten with Passion. When I am depressed they are blue, excited green, normally my eyes are a strange grey combination of the two.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BooksComedy and fantasy I love just about anything by Terry Pratchet, Robert Asparin, Jody Lynn Nye, Mercedes Lackey, Anne McCaffrey,Marion Zimmer Bradley, and Orson Scott Card to name a few. Movies All kinds: Horror: "In The Mouth of Madness" , Cult: "This is Spinal Tapp", Action: Robert Rodriguez' "Mariachi Series", Drama: "Swimming With Sharks", "American Beauty", "Pleasantville", "Big Fish", "The Weatherman" Sci/Fi: "BladeRunner", "Gattica", "Stargate", "Starman" Adventure: "Raiders of The Lost Ark", Romantic Comedy: "The Girl Next Door", "Forty Days and Forty Nights" Fantasy: The Lord of The Rings", Weird Romantic Drama: "The Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind" etc. Music Damn Near Everything Rock N Roll but I've also been known to enjoy Jazz, The Blues, some rap, Classical, and a little easy listening. Food Any thing spicy! I especially like Italian.
The six things I could never do without
1) Adventure- If it's boring, it is your own damn fault!
2) Passion- If it doesn't move you, then why are you wasting your time?
3) Imagination- Empty or Half Full?
4) Excitement- The best drug there is!
5) Beauty- What we are all hear to experience!
6) A Challenge- A reason to get out of bed in the morning!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I need to do next to achieve my goals.
On a typical Friday night I am
At the movies with my son, or throwing darts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like some Musicals.
You should message me if
You would like to find someone to share some time with. Whether that means having a pleasant meal and conversation , or something else is entirely negotiable. So It's your call. If I sound like what you want drop me a line. If I'm not I will see you around.