Apologies up front on this, as the woman in question is definitely no "girl", and far more than "just a friend". Beth is most assuredly a Lifemate.
We both practice Polyamory and tend not to rule anyone out on the basis of their plumbing *alone*. The problem is that lately, she has had trouble finding suitable partners that are not batshit crazy, half a country away, actively and intentionally stupid, lacking in healthy relationship skills, or bereft of the ability to communicate effectively.
I offer this test as a way of perhaps helping to weed through some of the more offensive and obvious bad matches, in hopes that she can find worthy partners among the minority that remain.
Why isn't she writing the test for herself? Chief among a great many issues, is the sad fact that anytime a woman posts that she is bisexual and polyamorous here, there is a certain element that makes some incredibly vapid and narrowminded assumptions about her. Wading through that sort can be incredibly draining. Enough of that sort of thing and you start to wonder if the whole world is peopled by congenital idiots.
Multiply the number of inappropriate responses by an order of magnitude if the woman in question also happens to be a paragon for our societal perception of physical beauty, and perhaps you begin to see a bit of the problem.
...to be clear here, I am not looking for more partners for myself, and am not trying to pull together a threesome - I am merely wishing to provide richer and broader experiences for someone I love than one person alone can hope to provide.
...also to be clear here, while she would be open to partners of any sex or gender, if you are a heterosexual male, considering that you are in the vast majority, I will be very up front and suggest that the "Set" in which you are standing is very full - so as to resemble closely the Universe. She is not having any trouble finding suitable hetero males that are interested, and if the intention here is to broaden her experiences one needs to demonstrate that they belong to a unique subset, smaller than an apparently compatible sex and gender... and it needs to be a subset that engages her.
