The How clingy are you? Test

1. Hi! And welcome to my How clingy are you? Test. I'll be using advanced logic and knowledge to determine your true nature. Clingyness and codependency are similar and very detrimental to all relationships in our lives. Lets see how you rate, hope you enjoy!

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   When you fell in love as a teen, how did you feel about your mates friends and his or her time with them without you?

   Great, I had friends I hung with too

   I felt a little put out but not bad enough to say anthing about it

   I got sad and felt alone but did not say anything about it

   They paid for it dearly for leaving me/ we should share everything

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   You meet a new someone. They have some issues in their lives, not living on their own, jobs on and off, etc... Life circumstances have caused this and they say they are working on them. Do you allow them the time and space to work out their own issues or do you dive right in with a fix all for all their problems?

   I dive in, after all being their support is showing my reliability and dependability

   I let them work them out but offer a place to stay after all they may find someone else to do it

   Make some calls for a job for them and try to help them with whatever I can

   Ask them what they are doing to get going on those things and be a support by talking to them as they work the issues out for themselves

5. 3

   You meet someone new. After knowing them for a while it comes to your attention that they have a drug or alcohol problem. Life seems to kick them constantly so they use for these reasons. Do you let them know that you cannot be involved with a person who uses or do you try to be their rock in their hard hard life?

   Rock, for sure

   Know that a person has to learn self love and self respect, this cannot be done as long as someone continues to "fix" things for them

   I would use with them, party party party!!!

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   You have a child. What do you do to help them be independent of you?

   HUH???!!!

   Imagining my life without my kids needing me, is scary for me

   I encourage problem solving, self vision, independent ideas. My job is to be a guide, instructor and support as they grow into their own individual person.

   I don't have any children

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   Your significant other wants to have a night out each week with their friends without you.

   Oh hell no!!!!

   Okay but I am not happy about it

   Great, I like my time, I have things I could be doing without the distraction.

   I will hang with my friends to, since they have to do it.

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Finished!