unconditional acceptance- to love an immperfect person...perfectly. unconditionally accept people in spite of our judgment of them, we acknowledge our judgments and do not allow them to shape our thinking, non-judgment and unconditional acceptance lies is in my belief that my partner is able to be creative, resourceful and whole. In short, I believe they have the potential to be, do and have anything they want. Furthermore I understand that the person who presents themselves to me is not neccessarily who they really are.
I’m certainly not suggesting that I am judgment free, I acknowledge that in many ways we are programmed to judge from birth. Indeed some of the judgments and beliefs we create are vital to our survival. I think that the most enlightened we can be is to . In other words, as long as , our words or our actions then we can be true to ourselves.